Family & Divorce Law

How to protect your online privacy when going through a Divorce

Nowadays we are all online using social media platforms, streaming services and online shopping and our login credentials, passwords and answers to security questions may have been shared with a partner throughout your relationship. However, when you separate it is important to take steps to protect your online privacy and set boundaries.

18 Dec 2023

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Callie Nimki

Callie Nimki

Even if your divorce is amicable, taking steps to protect your online data is vital and can save you many issues in the long run. In cases where there is conflict between the parties there have been cases of identity theft and cyberattacks by one spouse as an act of revenge against the other.

This article looks at the ways in which you can take necessary steps to protect yourself online during a separation.

Social Media

Social media is used by most people these days and it is common for couples to share their login information while they are together. You should take steps to change your passwords for all social media accounts so that your ex-spouse cannot access the accounts and post as you.

If you do not want your ex to view what you post, you can unfriend them and anyone else who may help them to view your profile. You are also able to change your privacy settings so that only your friends can see your posts and profile and that only those with mutual friends are able to request you.

Some social media apps can also use location settings, so it is important to also disable these settings on each app if you do not want your ex to see your location.

Shared services

It is important to also consider any shared services you are both using such as:

  • Online shopping such as Amazon
  • App store accounts such as Apple/iTunes or Google accounts
  • Streaming services such as Netflix/Prime, Spotify, Gaming services
  • Cloud services such as iCloud
  • Photo storage

You can change your passwords and security settings on these services or set up a new account entirely. If you have trouble remembering which services you are subscribed to it may be a good idea to check your bank statements for any direct debits and also to check your phone for the apps. You should also bear in mind that some accounts may be synced with family sharing and therefore you should take steps to stop connectivity between devices if you do not want the accounts to be shared.

Location

If you are concerned about your ex knowing your location then you should look into disabling your location settings or changing your security settings. A virtual private network (VPN) can also be used to conceal not only your location but also your IP address if this is something you are also concerned about.

Financial

Online banking is also very common today and therefore if your ex is aware of your login details for this you can be at risk. Financial services can include:

  • Individual bank accounts
  • Credit card accounts
  • PayPal
  • Pension accounts

If you have any joint accounts, then you will not be able to change the login information for this and will need to agree on the closure or transfer of the account and how to split the funds.

You should not try and hide any assets you have as this will cause issues with your case if your divorce is still ongoing. The status quo which was enjoyed for finances during the relationship should remain up until a financial settlement is agreed. There should be no financial control such as stopping payments or over-spending.

If you do not have a bank account then you should look to open one in your sole name but you should be aware that if you are required to give financial disclosure then you will need to provide your bank statements during the process.

M&P Commentary

Callie Nimki, a Solicitor in the Family team, said:

“It is vital that you protect yourself online during a relationship breakdown, with technology always advancing, having your personal information at risk can cause lots of issues and can result in your personal information being used against you. Our family team at Mullis & Peake are able to help you through the divorce process and what you can do to better protect yourself in a difficult time.”

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